[Gently:]
That's the problem. I know you're not crazy, Tiffany, and I know you're not stupid. But when you don't give yourself time to think, you don't let people see who you are. All they see is the...the freaking out.
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[Gently:]
That's the problem. I know you're not crazy, Tiffany, and I know you're not stupid. But when you don't give yourself time to think, you don't let people see who you are. All they see is the...the freaking out.